Episode 70: Emergence Coaching for Grief, Loss, & Shadow Seasons
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Emergence
“Emergence” is the process of coming into being or of becoming important or prominent. And Emergence is happening for Wendy Sloneker and her coaching process — she’s announcing a shift in her work with clients! Emergence Coaching Emergence Coaching is the new direction, and while it incorporates all the tools from her previous practice, it also allows Wendy to take her expertise in emotions and provide support to people who are stuck and sick of being stuck. If you’re stuck in loss and in emotional pain of any kind, and the path you’re on is clearly a dead end or some kind of weird emotional cul-de-sac, Wendy can help you find your way again. |
Wendy announces a new direction for her coaching work.
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The structure of emergence coaching involves shifting, reframing, and reclaiming. If this sounds like something that could help you or someone you know get unstuck, stay tuned for more details.
You are Invited:
If you’re ready to emerge from pain and loss and the cocoon you’ve been stuck in for far too long, join Wendy in her group coaching program goinginside.me for support. And keep your ears open for Wendy’s new podcast!
You are Invited:
If you’re ready to emerge from pain and loss and the cocoon you’ve been stuck in for far too long, join Wendy in her group coaching program goinginside.me for support. And keep your ears open for Wendy’s new podcast!
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Full Episode Transcript
Wendy Sloneker
If you weren't listening to the Heart Healing from Loss podcast with Wendy Sloneker. This, my dear listeners is episode 70. Hi there, I am hopeful that this finds you well, and curious about what's coming next, even a little tiny, tiny, tiny bit. Even .0006% curious about what's coming next because shift and change. And here's the key word emergence is happening now, alongside life. This has everything to do with the change that I'm actually going through right at this moment IRT in real time.
So if you follow me on social media, you may have caught a whiff that my practice is changing in ways that I did not see coming that I actually, to be honest with you right here right now, I'm not thrilled about it. But I'm working with it, because this is what's here. And this is what's next. It is called Emergence Coaching. And it kind of came to me, it didn't kinda, it definitely came to me, it was delivered to me, delivered to me and now is going to be working through me.
I went ahead and looked up emergence for all of our benefits, just so I can understand. What is it again. So emergence is a noun, I kind of thought it was more on the verb side, but it's actually a noun. And what it is, is a process. It's a process of coming into being, or of becoming important or prominent. So things that are unconscious or subconscious become conscience. This is the process. And I actually also have a specific process that I'll be working with, in both my group coaching program, the going inside.me program and my private coaching.
This is radically new is 100% different. It incorporates all the tools and everything I've done before. So if you are a previous client, hi, I love you. And there's new stuff available. Even new to the Kartra platform where the group program is located, more is coming because more is being revealed. And this is what we call flow.
Okay, so emergence coaching, here is the initial scope of the process, I want you to know that there's a structure to it to the process, and it involves shift, reframe, and reclaim. These are the general steps and the tools that are associated are indeed, specific. So that's exciting. And fortunate. And really, this structure just kind of appeared because I've been through so many changes, both intangible and tangible similar to yourselves. However, the emotional side of things is where I have some serious skills, like emotions equals me at expert level and still climbing or descending, how you however you want to look at that we're going to go deeper. So who is this for? This is for people who feel stuck, stuck, stuck, stuck, sick of being stuck have like, tried lots of things, still feeling that inside stuck. This can be about grief, this can be about change. This can be about loss, heartache, heartbreak, this can be about a relationship. Although it doesn't have to be it can be about a sense of loss.
So if you've been listening for a while you'll hear that this is this is for people who are suffering with emotional pain. The release and removal and lift out of emotional pain is also what we're still doing. We're just going to focus on the process more and we're going to focus on the destination or the desired result more and I want to say it and spell it out here in the title of what I do so you know that it is active and it is it's a car If doubt path that is becoming clearer and clearer as I am, walking it and creating it. So for some of you, this may feel really risky. And for some of you this may feel resonant.
Welcome, all feelings are welcome exactly right here, I'm not here to convince you of anything, I'm here to ask you to look inside. For your own truth. Now, what may feel kind of like a relief is that I'm doing it. And I'm sharing about it here on this particular episode of this podcast. So you don't have to. I'm the guinea pig. And I am the forger. And sometimes for adjure as well, I am a fan of mushrooms. So and fungi. So all that to say like I go first. All that is to say is that I go first in shifting, reframing and reclaiming.
Ultimately, I'm looking for my own desired results of expansion. working more with myself, and supporting myself taking my own side, forging my own path. I'm also doing this as kind of the first member in my family of origin who you know, is, is an entrepreneur. So my path looks very different from how I was conditioned to think about money, work, effort, hustle, all these things. I am 53. So like, the Gen X thing is like in full force with me.
But it doesn't look like anybody else's in my family. It doesn't even look like anybody else's in my mastermind of other entrepreneurs. So holding to my own process, and honoring my own process is the work that I am doing. And it's the work and support that I offer.
It's been a haul of multiple processes, multiple flavors of emergence, I can't tell you how much time I've spent as in a cocoon, or as an emerging butterfly. I feel like I've spent very little time as a caterpillar. So life is coming at you with changes, and it is moving you into some sort of position with change, after trauma, after change. After grief after loss. This may be useful, this may be useful.
I'm doing this for clarity, I'm doing this because I've never done it before. And I'm eager, I'm eager for a new sense of expansion, of belonging to myself and to my place in this world. And to the process, honestly. So I'm a student of and an expert of, and it doesn't look like anybody else's. And there's a fair amount of resistance that comes in. So working with that feeling of stuckness is really where we start. And we start with honor and dignity so that that can be seen and heard. And then gently shift it in the way that it will in the way that is safe and in a way that is sustainable, that also creates a feeling or a sense of a win.
This is new to me too. All the tools are the same in the going inside.me program. And in my private coaching, however, there's more there's going to be more energy work more Reiki at the group level and at the private level. There's going to be more intuition talk and more spirituality talk and I honestly cannot believe that I just said that out of my own face. On this recording, I did not know that was coming but apparently it is so I am the delivery mechanism of this process.
If you are looking for more support and encouragement, gentle processes of shifting, reframing and reclaiming more on this is going to be revealed to me and you likely in rapid succession. And if you're available for this, as you are wanting to move through feelings of loss and release emotional pain, you're 100% invited. I want to share that I talked to my podcast team, Audiotocracy, Hi guys. And we will be starting over with a podcast that that is going to be more about emergence and less about heart healing from loss and actually removing heart healing from loss. This podcast, all of his episodes will stay alive up there in the pod land on the cloud, I'm going to go ahead and invest to keep that available.
And a new podcast is coming because we're going in a new direction that really focuses on the process of coming into being or becoming important or prominent. So otherwise said, the unconscious becoming conscious, so we can move through with more clarity, better decisions, more availability, more capacity, more energy, more love for self and others, no matter what is going on or not going on in the world. Our own piece is what is emerging.
And I'm going to do it as an emergence coach, you're invited, more will be revealed as, as comes available. Really what I'm working on right now is one of my calling the next podcast, I just love that you've been with me on all 70 of these episodes. The episodes again, I want to just confirm and affirm that they are staying. But there probably aren't going to be many more of them, especially as we turn to the process of emergence and the results that come from that to a whole lot. Here we go.
Thank you for listening. I love that you've been here. I love that you've been with me, this has been a huge opening for me. And I hope it has been for you to so much wholehearted love. And please join me in my new project. And in the goinginside.me program. I would love to have you there. It'd be so fun. Okay, I will speak with you again soon. And wonder what's gonna happen next. Stay with me now. And I'll talk to you soon.
Hey, thanks for listening. And if you are interested in doing a little deeper work in my group coaching program, go to goinginside.me See what I did there, goinginside.me. That's an annual program. We can work together in a group setting. And you'll see all the details right there. Love to have you join. Thank you for listening, and I'll talk to you next week.
If you weren't listening to the Heart Healing from Loss podcast with Wendy Sloneker. This, my dear listeners is episode 70. Hi there, I am hopeful that this finds you well, and curious about what's coming next, even a little tiny, tiny, tiny bit. Even .0006% curious about what's coming next because shift and change. And here's the key word emergence is happening now, alongside life. This has everything to do with the change that I'm actually going through right at this moment IRT in real time.
So if you follow me on social media, you may have caught a whiff that my practice is changing in ways that I did not see coming that I actually, to be honest with you right here right now, I'm not thrilled about it. But I'm working with it, because this is what's here. And this is what's next. It is called Emergence Coaching. And it kind of came to me, it didn't kinda, it definitely came to me, it was delivered to me, delivered to me and now is going to be working through me.
I went ahead and looked up emergence for all of our benefits, just so I can understand. What is it again. So emergence is a noun, I kind of thought it was more on the verb side, but it's actually a noun. And what it is, is a process. It's a process of coming into being, or of becoming important or prominent. So things that are unconscious or subconscious become conscience. This is the process. And I actually also have a specific process that I'll be working with, in both my group coaching program, the going inside.me program and my private coaching.
This is radically new is 100% different. It incorporates all the tools and everything I've done before. So if you are a previous client, hi, I love you. And there's new stuff available. Even new to the Kartra platform where the group program is located, more is coming because more is being revealed. And this is what we call flow.
Okay, so emergence coaching, here is the initial scope of the process, I want you to know that there's a structure to it to the process, and it involves shift, reframe, and reclaim. These are the general steps and the tools that are associated are indeed, specific. So that's exciting. And fortunate. And really, this structure just kind of appeared because I've been through so many changes, both intangible and tangible similar to yourselves. However, the emotional side of things is where I have some serious skills, like emotions equals me at expert level and still climbing or descending, how you however you want to look at that we're going to go deeper. So who is this for? This is for people who feel stuck, stuck, stuck, stuck, sick of being stuck have like, tried lots of things, still feeling that inside stuck. This can be about grief, this can be about change. This can be about loss, heartache, heartbreak, this can be about a relationship. Although it doesn't have to be it can be about a sense of loss.
So if you've been listening for a while you'll hear that this is this is for people who are suffering with emotional pain. The release and removal and lift out of emotional pain is also what we're still doing. We're just going to focus on the process more and we're going to focus on the destination or the desired result more and I want to say it and spell it out here in the title of what I do so you know that it is active and it is it's a car If doubt path that is becoming clearer and clearer as I am, walking it and creating it. So for some of you, this may feel really risky. And for some of you this may feel resonant.
Welcome, all feelings are welcome exactly right here, I'm not here to convince you of anything, I'm here to ask you to look inside. For your own truth. Now, what may feel kind of like a relief is that I'm doing it. And I'm sharing about it here on this particular episode of this podcast. So you don't have to. I'm the guinea pig. And I am the forger. And sometimes for adjure as well, I am a fan of mushrooms. So and fungi. So all that to say like I go first. All that is to say is that I go first in shifting, reframing and reclaiming.
Ultimately, I'm looking for my own desired results of expansion. working more with myself, and supporting myself taking my own side, forging my own path. I'm also doing this as kind of the first member in my family of origin who you know, is, is an entrepreneur. So my path looks very different from how I was conditioned to think about money, work, effort, hustle, all these things. I am 53. So like, the Gen X thing is like in full force with me.
But it doesn't look like anybody else's in my family. It doesn't even look like anybody else's in my mastermind of other entrepreneurs. So holding to my own process, and honoring my own process is the work that I am doing. And it's the work and support that I offer.
It's been a haul of multiple processes, multiple flavors of emergence, I can't tell you how much time I've spent as in a cocoon, or as an emerging butterfly. I feel like I've spent very little time as a caterpillar. So life is coming at you with changes, and it is moving you into some sort of position with change, after trauma, after change. After grief after loss. This may be useful, this may be useful.
I'm doing this for clarity, I'm doing this because I've never done it before. And I'm eager, I'm eager for a new sense of expansion, of belonging to myself and to my place in this world. And to the process, honestly. So I'm a student of and an expert of, and it doesn't look like anybody else's. And there's a fair amount of resistance that comes in. So working with that feeling of stuckness is really where we start. And we start with honor and dignity so that that can be seen and heard. And then gently shift it in the way that it will in the way that is safe and in a way that is sustainable, that also creates a feeling or a sense of a win.
This is new to me too. All the tools are the same in the going inside.me program. And in my private coaching, however, there's more there's going to be more energy work more Reiki at the group level and at the private level. There's going to be more intuition talk and more spirituality talk and I honestly cannot believe that I just said that out of my own face. On this recording, I did not know that was coming but apparently it is so I am the delivery mechanism of this process.
If you are looking for more support and encouragement, gentle processes of shifting, reframing and reclaiming more on this is going to be revealed to me and you likely in rapid succession. And if you're available for this, as you are wanting to move through feelings of loss and release emotional pain, you're 100% invited. I want to share that I talked to my podcast team, Audiotocracy, Hi guys. And we will be starting over with a podcast that that is going to be more about emergence and less about heart healing from loss and actually removing heart healing from loss. This podcast, all of his episodes will stay alive up there in the pod land on the cloud, I'm going to go ahead and invest to keep that available.
And a new podcast is coming because we're going in a new direction that really focuses on the process of coming into being or becoming important or prominent. So otherwise said, the unconscious becoming conscious, so we can move through with more clarity, better decisions, more availability, more capacity, more energy, more love for self and others, no matter what is going on or not going on in the world. Our own piece is what is emerging.
And I'm going to do it as an emergence coach, you're invited, more will be revealed as, as comes available. Really what I'm working on right now is one of my calling the next podcast, I just love that you've been with me on all 70 of these episodes. The episodes again, I want to just confirm and affirm that they are staying. But there probably aren't going to be many more of them, especially as we turn to the process of emergence and the results that come from that to a whole lot. Here we go.
Thank you for listening. I love that you've been here. I love that you've been with me, this has been a huge opening for me. And I hope it has been for you to so much wholehearted love. And please join me in my new project. And in the goinginside.me program. I would love to have you there. It'd be so fun. Okay, I will speak with you again soon. And wonder what's gonna happen next. Stay with me now. And I'll talk to you soon.
Hey, thanks for listening. And if you are interested in doing a little deeper work in my group coaching program, go to goinginside.me See what I did there, goinginside.me. That's an annual program. We can work together in a group setting. And you'll see all the details right there. Love to have you join. Thank you for listening, and I'll talk to you next week.
